Category Archives: Spare time – Culture

Books of the month

Here is what I will be reading (or have already read) this month:

Uglies by Scott Westerfeld, for last week’s teen book group.  (Loved it!  Tried to buy the sequels yesterday at the book store, but they were sold out.  This is the first time in MY life that I’ve actually wanted to buy a science fiction book.)

Here Lies Arthur by Philip Reeve.  Just purchased yesterday, and started it last night.  I love that Reeve dedicated the book to Geraldine McCaughrean, one of my favorite authors.  (Reeve is another of my favorite authors.)  I’m toying with the idea of suggesting it for the teen book group, though historically they haven’t loved my suggestions…

More Fast Food My Way by Jacques Pepin.  Jacques is one of my heroes, and I wanted to be sure to add this to our collection of his books.

A Dog’s Life: The Autobiography of a Stray by Ann Martin, for next week’s fifth grade book group.  We had a great discussion of this book two years ago, so I was eager to bring the book back for another group of fifth graders.  Some worry that the book is too sad, especially for animal lovers, but I would argue that the happy, settled ending balances out any sadness – not to mention that life IS sad, and stray animals have it very, very tough.  How much should we protect our children from the sadness of the world?  Are we doing them any favors by hiding these things from them?  Or is it better to admit that, yes, there are sad parts, tough parts, in life, and then talk with children about what kind of positive difference each of us can make in the world?

The Mysterious Benedict Society and the Perilous Journey by Trenton Lee Stewart, for this month’s sixth grade book group.  Loved the first book, and am looking forward to reading and discussing this second book.

The Everything Learning Italian Book by Michael P. San Filippo, and a newly purchased Italian/English dictionary.  Because, of course, I’m taking an Italian class!

And a stack of books that I purchased over the summer, with every intention of reading this summer.  Haven’t gotten to them yet, but…wait ’till the woodstove is cranking and the cats are purring. 

Asparagus

Last night we were making dinner, and I held up the last of the bunch of fresh asparagus from Verrill Farm.  “Want some?”  I asked Jim.

“Um, no,” he replied, “How about those snap peas in the fridge?”

“You don’t like asparagus, do you?”

“I do,” he said, “Just not three nights in a row.”

“But you didn’t have any last night!”

“No, ” he said, “but you did.”

Oh.

I get it.

Insanity

It could be the heat, I’m not entirely sure, but I went a little insane this afternoon.

Sitting at the computer, trying to update our woefully out-of-date finances, I suddenly lost it.  Ran and grabbed the vacuum.  Starting vacuuming up the ants that began invading the house this morning.  Didn’t work.  Ran to the foyer.  Grabbed a pair of shoes.  Stomped around the house yelling, “I hate you!  I hate you!  I hate you!”  Along with some other words, not polite ones.*

There are a lot of dead ants in our house now.  But even more live ones, having a little party in our basement.  I’m off to my boiling hot car to drive to the hardware store to buy ant traps – a lot of them.

I hate summer.  Blech.

*  it should be noted that I’m usually quite peace-loving when it comes to insects; the only ones I kill without hesitation are mosquitoes.  Otherwise I usually choose one of two options: walk around and ignore said insect, or gently scoop it up on a piece of paper and take it outside.

Vacation

It’s been an odd vacation, but a good one.  Jim spent most of this past week painting the exterior of his mom’s house (I joined him in painting on two days), and today Jim and I worked with his brother to install a new floor in his mom’s sunroom.  And I ran a book group, tutored three lessons, and worked on some storytime planning. 

Even though we both worked – a lot – during this vacation, it was still a nice break from the daily grind, and I’ll be going back on Monday with fresh enthusiasm.  Just in time for summer reading…

The best parade ever…

Though Dan couldn’t make it up from New Bedford for the parade today (we missed you Dan, hope you are feeling less phlegmy and more rested), today was the best Patriot’s Day parade ever.  Ever.  The weather was fantastic – not too cold, not too hot, sunny but not sun-burny – and Dad and I managed to do everything just right.

I picked Dad up at 8 AM, and as we drove to Concord center we worried about where to park.  Which was a silly worry, because the best parking spot ever appeared before our eyes: on Main Street right by the Concord Public Library.  The weather was still chilly, so we sat in the car and chatted for a bit, and within ten minutes of our parking there wasn’t a spot to be found on Main Street.  Yay us.  And the day just got better from that point…

We decided to catch the parade at its beginning, and stood in front of Sally Ann’s Bakery waiting for it to start.  And who can stand by an open, wonderful bakery without buying a muffin (blueberry) and a cup of steaming hot coffee (Jamaican Blue and Colombian mixed together).  Dad and I sipped and nibbled as the parade began the day’s march, shivering a little in the morning cold. 

The parade’s opening is never its best part, though we enjoyed it, and once it had passed we strode over the raised walkway between the Keyes Road lot and the Christian Science church, with the Old Manse as our next destination.  Along our way we ran into a mom and four boys who are from the town in which I am a librarian and had a lovely chat about growing up in Concord (me) and Lincoln (her), and I shared with her where we were headed.  Her eyes lit up at the mention of the horses at the Old Manse, and she eagerly asked if she could follow us on our sneaky shortcut.  But when she asked the four boys whether they would rather see the horses or watch the guns being fired – you guessed it, the boys all yelped “Guns!  Guns!  We want to see the guns!!”  As we parted ways with the group, the mom sighed and said, “I wish I could go with you guys and see the horses!!”

Dad and continued on past Concord Lumber and to the old railroad embankment, cutting across to Monument Street and the Old Manse.  There all the horses stood with their handlers, away from the sound of cannons and guns.  Jean has asked what kind of heavy horses are in the parade, and I don’t really know – they’re a buff color with paler manes and tails, beautiful and solid and huge.  I took lots and lots and lots of photos of them and of the graceful Arabians who also march with the Concord Independent Battery.  Usually I’m one of the few people who hang out by the horses, but this year there was a gaggle of little girls and their moms petting the Arabians’ noses and ooohing and aaahing wistfully.  And then the first cannon was fired, which spooked the sweet patient pinto who had been receiving the most attention from the cluster of horse fans.  That put an end to the petting, but allowed me to get some great photos of the horses with the Old Manse in the background.  But I could see that Dad was getting a bit tired of the girly horsey thing, and so we walked back to the center.

And we got the best viewing spot EVER.  This year the reviewing stand was moved to the intersection of Main and Walden streets, and I spotted a family seated in portable chairs on the Monument Square side of the reviewing stand, right next to the area reserved for Important People.  I elbowed Dad and we took up residence directly behind them, for an unobstructed view of the parade and unlimited photographic opportunities.

So here’s the secret:  each group who marches in the parade struts their best stuff in front of the reviewing stand.  It’s the most awesome place to be.  The bagpipe and drum unit from Boston stopped just by us to perform a beautiful rendition of “Amazing Grace”; the Navy Band pulled out all the stops and even pointed their trumpets and tubas right at us; the Fenn School band turned out a great performance in front of us; and we had a front row (and safe) seat for the drama of the CIB’s horses.  As I wrote yesterday, the CIB’s horses bring up the rear of the parade, and haul the cannons down Main Street at a good fast clip for a dramatic finale.  The first cannon was drawn by a pair that pulled side by side, but the second cannon was drawn by three horses, one leading in front, followed by a side by side pair.  That lead heavy horse got spooked and frisky, though, and started to pull the cannon and other horses towards the crowd on the other side of the street.  It took a lot of hard work from the CIB rider on him AND a man pulling on that horse’s lead rope to redirect those huge horses and heavy cannon away from the crowd and back towards the center of the street.  Pretty dramatic!

So I’ve probably gone on for far too long about this perfect, wonderful Patriot’s Day, but let me say one more thing:  when I moved away from Concord four years ago after thirty-five years of being a resident, I was saddened to think that I was no longer a Concordian.  I realized today that I was wrong.  I’ll always be a Concordian, though I’ll probably never again live in Concord.  It’s just who I am, and where I’m best known.   And where my favorite holiday takes place each year.

Patriot’s Day

Saturday was my favorite holiday, and today I’ll be at the official parade.  I remember several years ago when the push was made to move Concord’s Patriot’s Day parade to the Monday holiday, rather than hold the parade on the 19th regardless of the day of the week.  I was sad when that switch was made, and I know I’m not alone.  Certain events are still held on the actual holiday, like the Patriot’s Ball and the Dawn Salute near the Old North Bridge, and I think the Sudbury Minutemen still insist on making the trek to Concord on the 19th (which means that they miss the parade most years, which is a shame, because they’re a fun-loving crew and add a lot to the parade). 

I missed the Dawn Salute this year, due to my total inability to haul my butt out of bed and into my car at 5:15 AM, and I’m sad about that.  Though it’s cold and painfully early, it’s the best part of an awesome holiday, especially when Prescott rides his horse across the bridge while yelling “The Regulars are coming!  The Regulars are coming!”  Sends chills up my spine every time.  And I love that not too many people attend the Dawn Salute; only the truly dedicated show up. 

But today’s parade comes in a close second to the Dawn Salute.  Concord’s parade (unlike arch-rival Lexington’s parade) is very homegrown and unadorned.  There are great marching bands, but no floats; lots of people dressed in period-appropriate costumes, but no one in clown suits.  My favorite part of the parade is the unit from the Concord Independent Battery.  I love to hang out at the Old Manse during the ceremony at the Old North Bridge, because the Battery’s horses rest there before the last leg of the parade.  There are some lovely little saddle horses (I watch out for one palomino in particular each year), but the heavy horses are my absolute favorites.  They are awesome – there’s something about being in the same space as those huge and beautiful horses that takes my breath away.  And each year, when I develop my roll of film from the parade, most of the photos end up being shots of the horses at rest at the Old Manse and running the final run down Main Street.

Which, of course, is the best part of the best day of the year:  standing at the head of Main Street (selfishly, I won’t give away the prime viewing spot) and watching while the Battery holds back at the rear of the parade, allowing space to grow between them and the unit in front of them.  Then the signal is given, and those fantastic heavy horses take off at a run down the street, hauling the heavy cannons in grand style.  For me, it’s the best thrill of the year.

Happy Patriot’s Day, everyone. 

American Idol

Yup, it’s true – I do still watch American Idol.  Why not.  And this season has been pretty great so far.  I’m blown away by the number of talented singers this year, and by the fact that there aren’t any singers who make you cringe and shake your fist at the screen.

I’m hard pressed to make any predictions of who might win, since the contest truly seems to be a week-to-week thing, but I will list my personal favorites – the contestants who I’d like to see continue on to the end:  Michael, David A., David C., Carly, and Brooke.  So if those guys can hang on to the final five, I’ll be psyched.

And now I’ve got to stop writing, since George Clooney is due up on the Today show…

Reading

Back in fifth grade, I was very competitive with my best friend Heather.  Heather always did just a bit better on spelling tests, and she was a much faster reader than I was.  I vividly remember sitting at our round four-person table in our semi-open classroom (it was the seventies, baby) during reading time, one eye on how fast Heather was turning her pages and the other eye on my own page.  My goal was to keep up, but man was it hard.  I knew I was losing threads of the story in my effort to keep pace with Heather.

And today I still struggle with my reading speed.  I prefer to read slowly and savor a writer’s choice of words, but that takes time.  There are only so many hours in a week that are available for me to read, and there are times (like last evening) when I feel very pressured to just get through the book.  (Last night’s book was the choice for today’s teen book group, I Am Rembrandt’s Daughter, which I loved despite having to gobble it down in one sitting.)

I’ve been following Roger Sutton’s admonitions to lovers of children’s literature recently on his blog, and I do totally understand his thinking.  We should be reading adult literature as well as children’s literature – we should be retaining that intellectual balance in our reading lives.  But how??  I’d wager that Roger Sutton has time in his work day for reading children’s literature (it just makes sense that the editor of the Horn Book would be allowed time to read on the job), and then he can use his off hours for reading adult books.  I don’t have that luxury in my role working in a very busy children’s room.  And then, three days a week, I leave my main job and toddle off to my second job tutoring.  And then, after I get home from tutoring and eat dinner, there is always a stack of children’s books waiting for me that I MUST read.  Most are for the weekly book groups that I run at the library, and a few are children’s books that are so popular with the kids that I know I need to read them to see what they’re all about.  And then too, there are the other parts of life that need to be lived: concerts, walks in the sunshine, household chores, quality time with the spouse.

I miss my old friends Jane Austen and Henry James and Thomas Hardy, but I can’t seem to make time for them anymore.  I know I’ll never be a faster reader, and I doubt that I’ll ever have the extra time available.  What’s a girl to do??